What Not To Wear To A Wedding

As a wedding guest, there are a few big no-no's when it comes to what to wear to a wedding. Wearing something inappropriate can be disrespectful to the bride and groom, even if it's an accident! So, from anything white to flips flops and board shorts, here's what NOT to wear to a wedding.

White Out...

Let's get the obvious out of the way first...ladies, don't wear white to a wedding! It goes without saying that this is the bride's big day and choosing an outfit that holds any resemblance to the colour of a wedding gown (cream, ivory and off-white, we're looking at you) is a big fashion don't! If your wardrobe is dominated by shades of white, try opting for a light pastel coloured outfit so that you can remain true to your style without running the risk of offending the bride.

Tuxed-no...

On a similar note, tell your man to stay away from his tuxedo when he's getting ready for a wedding! Just as the bride doesn't want to be upstaged, neither does the groom. A dress suit or blazer is a much more appropriate option and will eliminate the risk of offending the groom. Of course if the dress code specifies black tie, then go for it!

Less Is Not More...

If you're thinking of wearing your favourite cocktail dress to an upcoming wedding, perhaps reconsider. There's a time and a place for that cute cocktail dress that totally shows off your luscious, toned legs but a wedding may not be it. Save the short styles for a less formal occasion and ideally, try to stick with dresses that are no shorter than knee-length for a wedding. If you're attending a hot summer ceremony, opt for lighter fabrics rather than less of them.

Don't Do Denim...

Another fashion trend that has no place at a wedding is denim. Your jeans may be your typical go-to get up on the weekend, but stay away from them if it's the weekend of a wedding. Keep in mind that it's always better to be overdressed than underdressed at a wedding (but once again, no tuxedos).

Keep It Classy...

Really, any typically casual attire should be avoided by wedding guests. This includes T-shirts, flip flops, board shorts, and jumpers. If this is starting to sound like your entire wardrobe is ruled out, don't panic because there is a classier alternative for all of these. If you're going to a chic beach wedding, trendy sandals are a much dressier and more appropriate alternative to flip flops. Or, if it looks like it's going to be chilly, grab a fancy shawl or smart cardigan instead of your favourite hoodie.

 

Ditch The Crown...

If you never leave home without an accessory on your head, be very conscious of which headpiece you choose to wear to a wedding. Fascinators and refined headbands are acceptable but steer clear of anything that runs the risk of looking too bridal-like such as a tiara, flower crown or bejewelled headband.

Don't Take The Plunge...

Plunging necklines are also a danger zone for weddings. Try a sweetheart neckline with a statement necklace or keep it classy with a high rise neckline but leave your daring looks at home on the wedding day! Essentially, if you'd wear it out to a nightclub, it's probably not appropriate for a wedding. After all, you don't want to feel like you are falling out of your dress when you take over the dance floor!

Brighten Up...

While this isn't strictly a wedding fashion don't, it's best to avoid wearing black to a wedding. Black is typically worn by people who are in mourning, hence why it's traditionally the colour worn to a funeral. Keep it light and fun with your wedding outfit and opt for a brighter colour scheme. Or, if you're really into darker hues, choose an outfit that is navy over one that's black.

Leave It In The Jungle...

While we usually love a cheetah print skirt or a spotted leopard top, it's a no from us when it comes to wearing animal print at a wedding. If you're partial to patterned outfits, try something slightly more subtle like stripes or polka dots. These designs are fun and simple without being too over the top.

So, you've got the outfit sorted but now that wedding season is upon you, it might start to feel like the costs are never ending! Find out how to budget for wedding season as a guest here.