So you're engaged....Congratulations!! The next step is planning the big day! You may be wondering if you should channel your inner organisational queen or if you should choose to bring in a professional to help you out. We break down the pros and cons of getting a wedding planner and whether or not it's the right option for you.
Destination Unknown...
If you are planning a destination wedding, then it's strongly suggested that you look into working with a wedding planner. This means there is someone who is familiar with the destination you've picked which will make the whole process easier. If you have picked your venue, be sure to ask if they have an in-house wedding planner. This will make the whole process a breeze!
Money, Money, Money...
One of the biggest factors to consider when choosing if you need a wedding planner is your budget. Wedding planners are the experts of the industry so they very often come with a large price tag. Be sure to enquire the cost of the services early in the discussion and decide if you are comfortable with the price. Many couples will say that it is worth it as you can't put a cost on peace of mind, but the decision is up to you.
Planner Queen...
Are you the person who organises every family event or the one that gets the date wrong? If you are an organisational queen, then chances are you don't need a wedding planner. If you find yourself getting overwhelmed by the idea of having to plan such a special occasion, it is absolutely worth considering a professional to help you out. After all, you should be enjoying the experience, not stressing about it!
Size Wise...
If you are planning a large and extravagant affair, then you may need some assistance! After all, the larger the venue and the greater the guest list, the more organisation is needed. At the beginning of the planning process, sit down with your partner and determine the size of your wedding. This will help you decide if the task is too overwhelming or if you can handle it.
Take Control...
You know yourself, so you know if you will be able to let someone else take the reigns or if you need control of your big day. For some couples, giving up that control seems like an impossible task, in which case it's best to organise your dream day without a wedding planner. If you are happy to let someone else take control, then why not let it be a professional planner!
Are You Up To The Challenge?
If you have already been captured by the excitement and started planning the wedding, then you already have a sense of the experience. If you are starting to feel the pressure, it's time to bring in a professional. The truth is that this will only get tougher as time goes by, so it's best to have this realisation early on. There is nothing wrong with admitting that it's too much of a challenge and bringing in some help.
Drama, Drama...
Some couples can sense that there will be some drama when it comes to planning the wedding. Whether you have a family with strong opinions, or a friend who wants to take control, you may already be able to sense the difficult situations to come. If you can, it's worth getting a wedding planner so that a third party is there to assist. They can ensure there is as little drama as possible, and spreads the decision making power so that there is less pressure on you and your partner.
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