10 Important Relationship Lessons From Movies

Movies often leave us teary-eyed, envious of those perfect love stories and desperate for our prince charming to come along and sweep us off our feet. If you're looking to step up your relationship game, its time to study up on those rom-coms! Save yourself the heartache and learn these lessons by watching fictional characters make those mistakes instead! So ditch those Saturday night plans, grab a glass of wine and begin your marathon with these 10 important relationship lessons from movies.

Keep the Spark Alive...

Relationship lessons from movies can first be seen in the roller-coaster romantic comedy 'Crazy, Stupid, Love.'. This teaches us to keep the spark alive in relationships and to keep the magic alive by "dating" your partner. Treat every date like it's the first, continue to get to know your partner and keep it fun and exciting!

 Love Will Find You Anytime, Any Age...

With one of the biggest British all-star casts, 'Love Actually' is a movie that proves love can find you at any age and in any situation. This movie is for everyone! Whether you're in your 20s, 40s or 60s, love could be just around the corner, do not give up!

 

You May Be Looking Too Hard...

They do say that if you leave love to the universe, things will work out in their own time. Easier said than done! But what if the love of your life has been under your nose the whole time? 'He's Just Not That Into You' explores precisely that. Don't disregard that one friend that has been there for you through it all! They could just potentially be the one...

Vulnerability is Attractive...

This iconic coming of age movie '10 Things I Hate About You' teaches us to not change ourselves for anyone. Love is blind but most importantly, looks beyond our flaws, and accepts us for who we are. The vulnerability can serve as a strength in a relationship. Be sure to challenge yourself and your partner to open up, continue conversations and trust in one another.

Chemistry Can Grow...

Don't disregard people that you don't feel an instant connection with. Those slow-burners could turn into the greatest loves! One of the most iconic love stories of all time 'The Notebook' sees Allie (Rachael's McAdam's character) almost blowing off the love of her life for lack of spark when they first meet. If she hadn't taken a chance on him, what other movies would we possibly be crying to on a Friday night? The moral of the story is to give people a chance, after 3 dates you should be able to feel if that chemistry is there or not...

Stop Overthinking It...

It is easy to get caught up comparing yourself to everyone, especially in the era of social media where everyone's relationships are plastered on every app. Don't let those seemingly perfect relationships discourage you. Everyone relationship has its ups and downs, those downs, however, aren't often aired on social media. 'Bridget Jones: Edge of Reason' teaches us to not look for problems when they aren't there. Don't ruin a good relationship by over-analysing everything!

Chivalry Isn't Dead...

Another great love story! 'Titanic' taught us a very important relationship lesson, that old school romance can go a long way. Chivalry can be a great way to remind your partner of your love for them. Surprise them with a bouquet of flowers, a romantic dinner or even a simple note in the morning. Doing little things every now and then will make your partner feel that much more special.

Challenges Can Bring You Closer...

Although you and your partner will not be facing the challenge of a sinking ship (hopefully), 'Titanic' taught us that the occasional struggle could significantly strengthen your relationship. This helps you get to know each other, how you function under high-pressure situations and in the future how you will continue to confront battles as a couple.

Look Forward, Not Backwards...

It is far too easy to get sucked into the trap of going back to the ex. You'll begin to reminisce on the good times, but don't forget there was a reason it didn't work out. 'What's Your Number?' teaches us the important relationship lesson to not let that ex back in! The right guy is in the future.

 

Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone...

When introducing someone into your life, you need to be open-minded, willing to take risks and be vulnerable to grow a strong connection to your partner. 'Dirty Dancing' is a classic love story that explores just this. How important it is to be with someone who inspires and motivates you, and that you won't be able to experience these great loves unless you step out of your comfort zone!

Looking for more life lessons? Check out the relationship lessons we learned from Sex and the City here!